I’m compassionate but…

What’s the first impression you want to give people?

I’m a compassionate person, deeply invested in the well-being of those around me, but I also have my limits; I won’t allow others to abuse my kindness or take it for granted. Whenever I feel that my generosity is being exploited, I can transform from being warm-hearted into someone who appears meaner. I truly believe in the power of helping others and will go out of my way to support anyone in need, but being taken advantage of makes me feel bitter and resentful. My upbringing instilled in me the principle of treating others as I wish to be treated, alongside a strong belief in karma and its eventual return of deeds. Therefore, I initially approach people with love, kindness, and compassion, believing that everyone has good intentions. However, when individuals abuse this trust through greed, rudeness, gluttony, or a lack of gratitude, it ignites a sense of anger within me. This emotional turmoil often leads me to retreat into myself rather than act out. I won’t resort to yelling or screaming; instead, I quietly withdraw from the situation, reflecting on how I trusted too easily. While I may deal with what’s happening around me, I resolve not to offer my help again to those who have proven to be unworthy, learning to safeguard my heart from further disappointment.


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  1. lbeth1950 Avatar

    I also believe in setting limits.

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